A few weeks ago Spark of Life had a booth at the American Association of Christian Counselors conference in Dallas. We talked to hundreds of people about the mission of helping people find hope after loss. The highlight of the conference was seeing a former participant named Krista who had a booth right across from… Continue reading An Amazing Three Days | 2022 AACC Highlights
There is Always Hope They had nothing about them that would indicate greatness. Two photographers, each with a camera around their necks. But greatness they had, and hope they gave. And they had no idea. Their mission: when babies were not expected to leave the hospital alive, they took pictures of the babies and their… Continue reading Five Things 1,700 Grievers Have Taught Us | Part 5
It is December 13th as I write this. Our daughter-in-law Shelly has had their Christmas tree up since the end of October. She just loves Christmas or at least loves trees in her living room. And though many of us love this time of year, many we know simply dread it. As families gather to… Continue reading Christmas, Grief, and HOPE
I was in an elevator in Flint, Michigan in February about 30 years ago. I know, you feel sorry for me don’t you? The last place on earth one should be is in an elevator in Flint, Michigan, in February. But there I was, and when the door opened a much older lady (at least… Continue reading THE ELEVATOR, FLINT MI, THE YELLOW SWEATER, AND ENCOURAGEMENT!
The following story is the first chapter in my book Why Do You Hurt Me God? – every word is true. True love simply changes people. It sure changed me. It was 1963. The Dodgers won the World Series over the Yankees, sweeping them in four straight. My Texas Longhorns were 11-0, beating Roger Staubach… Continue reading A Valentine’s Love Story for the Ages: One Night, One Kiss, Three Words
Hello my friend. Have you ever been in a place where life is sucking the energy out of you? Maybe you’re dealing with grief and loss and it feels overwhelming. It simply stinks, doesn’t it? I’m so sorry for what you’re going through. Here are a few thoughts that hopefully can increase your hope level… Continue reading 3 things to do when life sucks and grief overwhelms
Hello my friend. Losing the love of your life can be a devastating experience. It’s one of those life events that we often don’t prepare for, yet it can happen to anyone, regardless of age, gender, or background. When the love of your life leaves, it’s not uncommon to feel lost, helpless, and overwhelmed. But… Continue reading 3 things you must do when the love of your life leaves
Hello my friend. Have you ever been overwhelmed by grief? Have you ever felt like the pain and hurt of your past was too much to bear? Have you ever felt like quitting because the weight of your grief was too heavy? I understand how you feel because I’ve been there too. But let me… Continue reading How to turn ‘give up’ to ‘get up’ after loss
Hello, my friend. Losing someone we love can be one of the most difficult things we ever face in life. Whether it is a child, spouse, or any other dear person, the pain can be overwhelming and leave us feeling hopeless and helpless. It can make us wonder if we will ever find joy and… Continue reading 3 things you must do to find joy again after loss
Hello, my friend Today, I want to share with you the inspiring story of 11 amazing grievers who have taught us so much at Spark of Life retreat. My name is Dave Matthews, and I am grateful for the opportunity to share with you the one important thing that they taught us for a healthy… Continue reading Hope is a sacred place
Spark of Life exists to instill hope that, though life can never be the same after loss, it can be rich and fulfilling. We are here to walk beside you on that journey, and hope begins now. We are a non-profit organization.
