Spark of Life Retreats are funded by private donations and are offered free of charge to those who have experienced loss.
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I wrote Why Do You Hurt Me God? because I had to. I was compelled to – for many reasons. Since we began Spark of Life in 2009, and really for years before, we have had that question, in one form or another, slung at us from people from all walks of life, usually after a death of a loved one, or some other horrific loss. It is a good question, because it is an honest one.
This frequently asked question comes from both ‘religious’ and ‘non-religious’ people. It’s a good question, one that I would ask before attending a retreat on grief.
I would ask it because personally I would not want someone telling me what I should believe about something so very personal. Plus, when I experienced heart-breaking loss, my thoughts and feelings toward my God were pretty negative.
It is called heaven by many, incredibly beautiful by others, and “my favorite place in the world” by a couple of our facilitators. It is called Montana.
One of our participants who came to a Montana retreat from Florida, stated it was the best … More
Why Do You Hurt Me, God? by Spark of Life co-founder David Mathews, helps you explore this life-altering question in a unique, down-to- earth way. David leads you on a journey from the valley of excruciating pain to the mountaintop of exhilarating praise. He helps you work through the dilemma of life’s dirt, explaining,
There are some answers to life’s difficult questions, and God is certainly big enough to handle those questions. If we stuff our true feelings when the dirt is so overwhelming, and do not ask the tough questions, it may be easier to give up on the God concept. But if we ask and are honest, we may discover some of the answers, and God’s ‘wow-ness’ can actually increase.
The ‘dirt’ of life poses serious challenges to each of us. Why not come along on the journey? Ask the difficult questions. Learn how to move forward with confidence. God is all-loving and can provide answers to your tough questions. In fact, he is the only one who can.